Sunday, November 29, 2015

Happy (post) Thanksgiving!

Our Thanksgiving was lovely this year.  Early in November, while I was still working, I decided not to host, as I usually do, but as the day drew nearer, I started to feel more and more guilty about that choice.  Fortunately, inertia is a powerful force and by then I had already said yes to three different shindigs taking place the day after Thanksgiving and the day after that, so I stuck to my guns (or, more accurately, did nothing) and resisted the urge to host.  Instead, we went to our three different events and had all sorts of good food with good company and I only had to wash the dishes I used to make my potluck contributions!

Of course, being me, I overcommitted for the potlucks, so I ended up making quite a bit of food anyway.  Our first dinner was with some of the husband's friends from work.  We have been experiencing the Great Turkey Shortage of 2015 over here this year (the unfortunately timed result of avian flu and halal issues), so our friend ended up paying 99QR (about $35) PER KILO for the five turkeys she ended up buying, a veritable fortune in poultry, but the turkeys (prepared many different ways) were all delicious, so we appreciated her extravagance.  She also invited lots of expats from other countries and then directed them to make traditional American dishes, so I ended up spending time at one point talking to a lovely British couple about the finer points of green bean casserole and the curious combination of sweet potatoes and marshmallows and agreeing with a Kiwi woman who could not stop expounding on the virtues of this delightful American tradition with its delightful cuisine!  We brought our traditional cranberry jello mold with strawberries, granny smiths, and pecans (though, truth be told, many of the other expats were VERY suspicious of the "jelly"), my grandmother's curried chicken cheese ball (anything rolled in coconut is always a hit), and my patented German(esque) potato salad, because how can you go wrong with dill pickles and bacon?  E loved the potato salad so much he had it for breakfast before school this morning, finishing off the last little bit.  This party also had a face painter and a photo booth with props, so E had a dragonfly painted on his hand and J took far too many pictures with oversized sunglasses and bow ties.  We stayed for hours and ate more than we should have, just like every other Thanksgiving!
Look at the detail on that dragonfly!
E with his friend M from his class at school.

There are many, many more of these!
Later that evening, we went to the monthly soiree thrown by our neighbors that we rarely miss.  Because we weren't sure we were going to make it to that one, I hadn't cooked anything special, so we reformed the cheese ball and added new crackers, put the leftover potato salad in a smaller bowl, and threw some banana oatmeal chocolate cookies I had made earlier in the week onto a plate before we walked over.  These soirees are always potluck affairs where the attendees can perform musical numbers if they would like; this month's theme was Christmas music.  J led everyone in singing Jingle Bells, E hummed Walking in a Winter Wonderland while the husband sang (because E wanted to sing that one but then realized he didn't actually know the words when the time came to perform), and the husband and I did an a cappella version of Once in Royal David's City, his favorite Christmas hymn.  I never perform at these things usually, being happy in my appreciative audience member position, so this was the rare exception for me.  There were quite a few other numbers as well, including some really impressive singing, piano, and guitar playing by a young man from the Ukraine who pretty much blew the rest of us out of the water and some lovely ukulele playing by another very talented guy from Fiji.  Apparently, the festivities went on quite some time into the night but we left at 8:30pm, it already being quite a bit past the boys' bedtime.
We were pretty giggly after the first party!
Our hosts introduced us to a new Christmas movie before
 the party began...the boys were enthralled. 
The pseudo-duet.
I need to get better at selfies....
The next day, Saturday, the husband played in an early morning golf tournament...and his team won, for the second year in a row!  We met him at the golf club for the award ceremony and lunch, but while he was off winning, the boys and I were at home making more food for our next dinner that afternoon with friends from church.  For our final Thanksgiving feast, I made cornbread stuffing (with onions and apples), cornbread (for J, who loves it more than anything, my Southern baby), pumpkin and cranberry bread pudding, cranberry sauce, and turkey gravy.  Oh, and I also cooked two turkey breasts in the slow cooker.  As I said, turkeys were few and far between this year; I found these two randomly in the frozen food section and decided to donate them to the cause.  We also had many roast chickens for dinner as well, smothered in vats of turkey gravy.  That dinner was delicious all around, with lots of dishes I want to get the recipes for, including a fresh cranberry relish I could have eaten the whole bowl of and a chocolate pie that I had to stop myself from devouring completely!
E with the first of two trophies the husband earned.
J with trophy number 2.
The victorious team!
On the course--look at that sky and that green!
In a year that is still filled with uncertainty, we are certainly grateful for all our friends here with whom we could celebrate, as well as all our friends and family at home we hope to see again soon!

















Wednesday, November 25, 2015

On the blog again...

Oh my gosh, I am so far behind in my posting!  So, here is the catch up plan: get back on track writing contemporary posts from today on as if nothing had happened and (bit by bit) get caught back up on the posts about our vacation to Greece and everything in between then and now.  For today, a few quick updates to get back up to speed:

--My temporary job ended after the first week of November.  It was all kinds of fun but very, very busy, especially there at the end during the conference itself (which was, in many ways, awesome, but in some very important little ways not planned well at all--when I am giving up my not especially good seat to the Korean ambassador because someone forgot to leave one for him and someone else is asking know-nothing me where the former prime minister of Australia should go to get her make-up done, you know things have gone dreadfully awry!).  I loved the editing work and the office camaraderie, and the glamor of the hobnobbing-with-VIPs conference was a bonus, but I was exhausted when I was through and able to decide beyond a shadow of a doubt that working full time here is simply impossible for me.  The editing part was great: I worked when I could, when I wanted to, while the kids were otherwise occupied, and I could do that more often no problem.  The needing to be somewhere during working hours (and evenings) was just untenable given all kids' schedules and needs, which I had suspected but was happy to have proven to myself in glaring relief.

--The husband's work situation continues to be tenuous.  The hospital did decide to cut only 25% of the budget instead of 71%, which appeared to be good news...but for some reason, pharmacy seems to keep going back and forth from the cut column to the save column, which is all kinds of annoying.  Do we want to leave?  Not right now, for sure, in the middle of the school year (again), but we're not sure we have a choice in the matter at the moment, until some more decisions get made once and for all. So, in the meantime, in the interests of self-preservation, we are applying for jobs elsewhere but no real bites yet and there aren't even that many jobs available right now anyway.  We are also moving forward with our financial goals, getting our house in order in case we do have to leave suddenly.  The husband has been diligent about keeping us on track so we are in good shape.  As we have started to say a lot, every month longer we are here, our situation upon leaving gets better and better, so that has given us some peace in a very tumultuous time.  Do I love the unknown of it all?  Not even a little bit, but we have no choice.  A friend of mine suggested I try "radical acceptance," which seems like as good a strategy as any and has the potential upside of not making me insane on a daily basis!

--Meanwhile, life goes on: our first PTA event, a welcome social, was a smashing success, as I will detail in a longer post at some point.  We are now on to our next event, International Day next weekend.  This event will require quite a bit more work by parent volunteers besides the PTA leadership, so we shall see how it all turns out.  Fingers crossed!  Being PTA chairperson is alternately gratifying and aggravating; I find I have little patience for parents who want to complain but refuse to look for or assist with solutions to problems.  Some days I have to throw my hands up in the air in frustration but there are enough little victories, like a fun opening social, to keep me going!

--I participated in a group yard sale a couple of weeks ago and got rid of a ton of stuff, which was great.  I have been going through our belongings again, in anticipation of having to move at some point, and since we have committed to not shipping a container back home, we will only be sending a fraction of the stuff we have here back home in the end.  Our goal is just to have a small-ish air shipment of books and irreplaceable household goods in addition to as many suitcases as we are allowed and can get using our air mile points.  Which means eventually lots will go so for now I am slowing culling the unnecessary and moving it out in small batches.

--Um, the weather here this week is insane: last week the Emir and many children all over the country, including the Muslim children at my boys' school, participated in a country-wide prayer for rain.  Today, we have a deluge complete with thunder, which is something we haven't seen in over two years here.  Roads are flooded, of course, because drainage and infrastructure are not so much a thing here, so many schools were cancelled, but not ours.  Apparently, we are on higher ground, and the buses and parents were able to get through, so cancelling was not deemed necessary.  But just for a taste of what others of my friends were facing during school runs this morning, take a look at some of the pictures in this article, as well as a video of the rain INSIDE the airport (embedded in the middle of the article at about 9:50am, scroll down a bit): http://dohanews.co/heavy-downpours-in-qatar-lead-to-flooded-roads-school-closures/
Crazy!